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Wednesday, 28 February 2007

  • Ramblings

    It's been forever again since I posted here but frankly I don't really care terribly much about missing weeks and weeks of possible postings and being completely up to date on reading others' blogs.  I don't mean to offend anyone but sometimes other things in life just take precedence and not everything needs to be shared with the public.  Tonight for some reason I just feel like rambling a bit and it may be more an outlet for myself than for anyone else to read and comment.  One thing that never ceases to amaze me is how quickly emotions can change.  From being extremely upbeat, happy and enthusiastic to the very depths of despair seems just like a short turn around the corner, but thankfully the moments of discouragement and despair have always lifted sooner or later.  I'm thankful for my wife, my kids, and for many friends who have made the rollercoaster of life a tolerable and often also a very enjoyable experience.  I thank God for every blessing I can still enjoy, and the one thing I really want to improve on is being an encourager, a person that builds others up rather than drag them down.  It seems that the main hindrance in making real progress in that area is the tendency to be introspective rather than just letting go of my own hopes and frustrations, and instead focus on being there for those who need me.  It's always been way more satisfying to contribute to someone else's happiness rather than my own.  I still don't feel I have complete control over how I act or react in certain situations but I do hope that I will eventually learn my lessons.  The one thing we share with everyone else on this planet is our humanity - and that includes our frailty, our moodiness, our destructive tendencies, but also beautiful things such as patience, forgiveness, second chances and learning to love unconditionally.  I know that God has invisibly His hands in this whole process and if it weren't for that, there really wouldn't be much hope left for this planet and for our own lives.  Life's circumstances and emotions may be in a constant flux of change, but beyond all of that is a solid unmovable foundation of divine love and grace.  And that is just an incredible source of comfort and strength, even when feelings want to go all haywire.  Have a great week everyone - I hear longer days and more sunshine are also just around the corner!  Be blessed!

Tuesday, 06 February 2007

  • A bit sad, but probably not too far from the truth

    How to treat a Woman:

    Wine her.
    Dine her.
    Call her.
    Hold her.
    Surprise her.
    Compliment her.
    Smile at her.
    Listen to her.
    Laugh with her.
    Cry with her.
    Romance her.
    Encourage her.
    Believe in her.
    Pray with her.
    Pray for her.
    Cuddle with her.
    Shop with her.
    Give her jewelry.
    Buy her flowers.
    Hold her hand.
    Write love letters to her.
    Go to the ends of the earth and back again for her.

     
     
     
     
    How To Treat a Man:

    Show up naked.
    Bring chicken wings.
    Don't block the TV.

Wednesday, 24 January 2007

  • Lifestyle changes

    Since my doctor indicated that I might have issues with my glucose / cholesterol level (pending on the results of a second and conclusive blood test next week), I have decided to make some permanent changes to my diet.  The  hardest part is not so much staying away from some of my favorite foods (pork roasts, gravies, sausages, bacon, lots of pasta and rice, chocolate) but cutting down on portions.  Somehow I'll try and fill myself up with veggies and fresh fruit when the cravings come.  I have a feeling that the next few weeks or even months are not going to be easy.  But in the end, I guess it will be worth the effort.  I certainly don't want to have to face a heart attack anytime soon (like my dad and 3 of my uncles in the last 10 years)!

    It's been a rather slow week as far as church activities are concerned and our youth pastor will be preaching this Sunday.  I actually enjoy his messages a lot.  He is definitely a gifted speaker and our oldest daughter told me a few weeks ago: "I like Jon's preaching better than yours, Dad!  He is more up-to-date!"  Well, if she likes it, I'm not gonna be jealous for one second.  It's nice to have a break once a month and just be able to listen and digest.

    I'm reading right now a book by Philip Yancey ("Prayer - Does it make a difference?").  He is one of my favorite authors because he really thinks through the issues and doesn't shy away from the tough questions that critics and even we ourselves often are asking.  I'll try and post a summary and a few thoughts on the book when I'm finished with it.

Monday, 22 January 2007

  • Did you know ...

    ... that as of 2006, 200 million blogs were left without updates?  (I suddenly don't feel so alone!)

    Oh ... one more thing I wanted to mention last week but never got around to getting it "logged" here:

    I FINALLY (with almost 1 year delay!) got to watch the DaVinci Code movie with Tom Hanks.  I was a bit disappointed that it didn't turn out to be much of a thriller (at least I didn't feel much suspense as the story line moved rather slowly and was somewhat predictable) but it was still  intriguing to watch in terms of the questions raised such as:  what would actually change (even from a mere theoretical standpoint) if Jesus had been married and had a child?  Would it make him any less divine?  I also appreciated the fact that the historical reconstruction of the events at the time of the Roman emperor Constantine by Ian McKellen's character wasn't left unchallenged.  The biggest error in the book and in the movie is of course the whole idea of the church suppressing important evidence right from the time of the apostles.  Since there was no established church hierarchy or power structure per se that could have had the kind of influence to leave such distortions and omissions unchecked, it is not so much bad theology from Dan Brown - it's just bad historical research and a rather wild imagination without much logic attached to it.  It also makes no sense (psychologically or otherwise) from the perspective of a tiny Christian minority under great pressure to hang on to something that they personally knew very well to be a lie.  Anyway, that's my 5 cents on this book / movie.

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